Blissdom Conference 2013

This past week Liam and I traveled to Blissdom Conference 2013, a blogging conference for women that was held in Dallas, Texas on March 21-23rd. If you want to read about Blissdom 2012, I did a recap here.

Blissdom Conference - arrival

We headed out on our adventure on Wednesday (March 20th). We got settled in at the airport and had an hour before our flight left. Liam did so great on the flight and got a 30 minute nap midway through. However, that was the ONLY nap he got all day long. Help me! Seriously, though, the plane was one of those tiny ones where there’s one seat on one side and two on the other. Tiny! Luckily, the woman next to us was baby friendly…I can’t say the same thing about the guy sharing the row with us. ;-)

Anyway, once we arrived at the Gaylord Texan, we had some downtime to settle in and get organized. I ordered the lovely salad below…don’t even ask how much room service costs. You’ll pee in your pants, just like I almost did. Oye. But, you gotta eat!

Blissdom Conference - Day1

 

Do you like my makeshift bathroom pantry?

I’m so grateful to Erica for letting us borrow her stroller and pack ‘n play! There’s no way we would have made it without them. :D

The actual hotel is gorgeous. It’s very Texan and the constant white noise effect of the water features throughout the hotel were quite relaxing for Liam. Hello, naptime! ;-)

As compared to Blissdom last year when it was held in Gaylord Opryland, the Gaylord Texan is SO much easier to get around in. I can’t tell you how lost I got in Opryland. The Texan has just one big Atrium, making it the perfect place to act as ‘homebase’.

Blissdom Conference - hotel

The downside of a smaller hotel, is fewer food options. Being a foodie, I was disappointed at the lack of options. Those of you who follow me on Instagram saw very little food photos…especially dessert because there just wasn’t a great place to get them!

Blissdom Conference - More Food

I spy Brandi with a giant cookie!

Blissdom Conference - More Hotel

Well, coming a day ahead of time worked out really well. It allowed Liam and myself to get acquainted with our new surroundings and we were able to have a some what normal routine.

On Thursday (March 21st), we had breakfast with Natalie and baby Micah from The Busy Budgeting Mama. Check out our matching baby butts!

photo (2)

I was also able to let Liam take a somewhat normal nap in the dark hotel room, while I got some work done. :D Of course, we had to let him have a fun bath time too!

Blissdom Conference - Downtime

That night after the kick off event, Liam, Jennifer and I explored some of the sponsor’s booths. Oh, did we have fun!

Blissdom Conference - Sponsors Side Note: If you’ve ever had a mobile child, it’s really hard to not let them be mobile. Any time we had the option, I’d let Liam crawl around and pull up on things. That being said, I’m a germ freak, so I had to let my germ guard down for this trip. We were both so exhausted at night that Liam had to get baths in the morning.

Blissdom Conference - Dirty to Clean

The next morning (Friday the 22nd), we were up bright and early for breakfast with Dr. Smiths! Friday and Saturday were both filled with lots of talks and visits to the sponsor booths. There wasn’t a minute to spare.

Since we were go-go-go all day, the k’tan was such a blessing. Liam refused to nap in the stroller. There was just too much to look at. But, with the k’tan, he’d take 3 thirty minute naps every day. I was lucky if those naps fell during a session, so I could listen. Thank goodness for Bliss At Home so I can dive more deeply in what the fabulous speakers had to say!

Blissdom Conference - Sleeping

Liam made lots of good friends. Especially Micah, Carter and Caprice.

Blissdom Conference - Babies

I made new friends too! Like Courtney, Natalie and Jenny (please excuse my awful hair…poop on those frizz pieces from having Liam)!

Blissdom Conference - New Friends

On Friday night we had a little Mommy-Baby playdate for those of us who couldn’t go to the Girl’s Night Out Party (our babies had a few years before they were 21 years old). ;-)

Blissdom Conference - Panorama

Here’s all 8 of us mommies and our babies!

blissdom conference - playdate fun

And why not, I threw in some extra photos of little Liam and strollers. He was the stroller king. If he wasn’t in it, he was climbing on them and trying to eat the wheels…eww.

Blissdom Conference - StrollerOn Saturday morning, we had a great get-together hosted by Jenny and the BOB Moms for mommies and babies!

We had another whirlwind of a day and in the last session Liam slept for most of the time, but I had hit a wall and needed caffeine to focus. I hung out with the girls for a few minutes before heading to the One2one Network suite to grab a coffee. As soon as I walked in, Amber and Mary Ellen (two amazing One2One Network gals) surprised me that I had won an iPad! Whaaaa?!? I was beyond excited. No caffeine required anymore! I went back to the room to grab a few essentials and headed to the closing keynote. There, I spent a good bit walking the hall trying to get Liam to nap and it finally worked! Thank you again k’tan! Afterwards, I had a lovely dinner with new friends, Nancy, Jennifer and Natalie.

Blissdom Conference - Conference

Finally, we loved our last time bit of together at the Girl’s Night In party, eating chocolate popsicles and staring at a clear dishwasher. Liam was so exhausted he fell asleep soon after we got there. Poor little guy.

Blissdom Conference - Girls Night In

On Sunday, we got a nice big breakfast with Jennifer then headed to the airport. Our driver was such an inspiring man, having immigrated to the United States from East Africa as a refuge and worked his way through college and is now working two jobs to put his daughter through college. Really put perspective on things. I really have such a high respect for hard workers like him.

After the incredibly nice gentleman dropped us off at the airport, it was time to go through security. Luckily, our checked bag was only 1/2 pound over weight…oye…no wonder I had to sit on the luggage to get it to zip!

So, here’s where I have a love/hate relationship with airport security. I love that they are truly trying to make flying safe, but seriously? You choose a 26 year old mother traveling alone with a baby to do a thorough investigation on? Okay. So here’s how that went:

Liam was sound asleep from the car ride to the airport. I had to wake him up and put him in the k’tan from the car seat. I then proceeded to hold up the line while I unloaded all of our belongings into the bins. I had two carry ons (all baby stuff), a car seat and a car seat cover. I made it through the metal detector where they wanted to check my hands…I guess for explosive materials?…I was clear. Then, I went to go collect my things, when I noticed that one of my bins was in another lane…I was the chosen one. Ugh.

They took us to a separate spot in security, where I had to take Liam out of the sling, put him back in the car seat, take everything non-essential off of my body (scarf, belt, etc) and be thoroughly touched…in places I’d rather not be touched…in front of a mess of people. Meanwhile, Liam was getting fussy in his car seat which was a few feet away from me, while a bunch of other people were taking everything out of my bags and testing them. So, they managed to thoroughly fluster me, aggravate my baby, and screw up my system in my bags for the necessary in-flight items to keep Liam happy.

All I have to say, is I’m glad that I got to the airport an hour earlier than scheduled.

So yes, as you can see below, Liam was oh so happy in the airport. Not. I could barely scarf down a veggie burger before boarding.

Blissdom Conference - Sunday

The only saving grace was that a super nice man let us sit in his row by ourselves. Glorious! The down side was that Liam wouldn’t nurse or take a bottle on the decent, causing him to scream for a good 30 minutes until he cried himself to sleep.

Blissdom Conference - Departure

Overall, it was a great trip and I’m a better person for going. I learned a ton…mainly about what I can handle and that there are so many nice people in this world. It was hard to get actual education from the conference because I had a baby in tow, but the friends, connections and experiences were all worth it. I’m so blessed to know and work with such amazing women at Blissfully Domestic. The Bliss Chicks rock!

If you want to see some of my new friend’s blogs, check them out here:

Blissfully Ever After – DIY/Home
The Busy Budgeting Mama – Parenting/Home/DIY/Lifestyle
From Haus to Home – DIY/Home

I was given a baby k’tan to use at Blissdom by Baby K’tan. My travel was partly compensated by Blissdom.

Related posts:

23 comments

  1. sorry the trip home wasn’t as good as on the way out :( but liam is such a cutie that he can get away with it!!

    i’m so glad we got to see each other!!! and that i got to meet the little man, who is even more adorable in person and my new boyfriend. i can’t wait to see you in June!! glad you guys got home safe :)

    1. We had so much fun! I guess it was better that we had a bad flight on the way home. If it was bad on the way there, I would have been terrified for the trip back. ;-) See you in June! Oh, and Liam says ‘hi’!

  2. Thanks so much for sharing. I have been considering going to a conference and wondered how it would work with a baby. Also I traveled to Italy at Christmas time with a 1 yr old and 4 yr old. So I feel your pain about airport security! And of course we were checked for explosive, random drugs, you know that kind of thing a mom with two kids would have traveling on an airplane….

    1. Haha…right?!? Wow…you’re brave to travel that far with kids! Luckily our flight was only 3 hours and by then we were both VERY ready to get off. ;-) As far as the conference with a baby goes, Blissdom is the PERFECT baby-friendly conference to go to. I didn’t get to see as many of the sessions as I would have liked to, but luckily Blissdom has a stream of the sessions online afterwords so we can catch up!

  3. I officially bow down to you for traveling alone with him!!!! When we flew to California last weekend I confirmed the fact that I don’t think I could ever do it alone!!! I give you SO much credit – inspiring!!!

    1. Haha…it was definitely an experience! I guess it’s kind of like running a marathon. You do it to say you’ve done it? ;-)

  4. oh, wow! liam is so big and so handsome! you’re such a brave woman for traveling alone with a baby. one thing though – gotta love the TSA for screwing things up that you had perfectly packed (insert sarcasm here). nonetheless, good to see that you and liam had such a fabulous time.

    oh, and big congrats on the iPad! woohoo!!!

    1. Haha, thanks Rita! It was definitely challenging, but so fun! He’s such a good baby, so that helps a lot. :-)

  5. Wish I could have stayed for Girls Night In, but baby X and I flew home Saturday night. It was fun and X was a great ice breaker but I know he got most of my attention.

    1. Oh wow, you were brave to fly home that night! Did you find that flying at night was better for the baby? I tried hard to schedule the flights around nap times and that worked pretty well. :D Great to meet you Darcy!

  6. You are so brave and lovely! ;) Your little guy was so cute (secretly he made me wish my 2yo was there – but he’s bent on world destruction, so I had to leave him behind). So glad you came and enjoyed yourself! See you next year???

    AND I TOTALLY AGREE with you on the Texan being easier to navigate!!! I was lost until day 3 in Nashville.

  7. I have to say, I’m super glad you did a post about what traveling to a conference was like with a baby. We are taking B to Type A in September and I’m really nervous! Looks like you had so much fun. I hope I can go next year!!

  8. It was SO great to meet you at Blissdom, Liam was a ROCKSTAR! It was hard not to feel like I totally knew you because you remind me so much of my best friend, Stephanie. :)

    Boo! about the security check! Caprice had a blowout while we were going through security, if I got flagged for a patdown too I would have cried. I was already sweating bullets traveling with her by myself. I can’t imagine all that pressure with a mobile baby. Glad you’re home safe and sound! Can’t wait to see you again next year!!!

    1. Aww, you’re so sweet Lindsay! Caprice is so precious. I just can’t get over it. We’re brave mommies to fly with our babies. I think it’s so cool that your friend Stephanie and myself are so similar. Twins separated at birth? ;-) Glad you and Caprice got home safely. Talk to you soon and see you next year! :D

    1. It was so nice meeting you too! I bet you and Carter were both ready to get home and see her twin! :D Liam had such a great time meeting Carter, too!

  9. I am starting to wonder if TSA specifically targets moms with little kids! I have been pulled aside and patted down with all my stuff rooted thru twice. Once when my daughter was one and I was 5 mos pregnant. The other time was in February when I flew alone with my two kids (16 mos and almost 3 years). They explained to me that because I had a large amount of liquids (either formula or the pouch foods), they have to check everything. Clearly they have never flown with small children, because we have enough to worry about, nevermind bringing contraband items on a plane!

    1. That’s exactly what they told me too! It’s because I had to bring food for my child! Grr. They say on the TSA website that you can carry food for your child, but it’s like the actual security people didn’t read the website. So frustrating. I almost think the security is the worst part of flying. Bring on the screaming baby in the airplane for 3 hours, just don’t let me have to go through the entire security detail at check in! ;-)

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>